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Andy's avatar

I still think AVs are a over-complicated attempt to solve a small part of a much bigger problem. Here's what I want to say here though -

Over the last few months my mother in law has when through a bunch of medical problems. A small silver lining is that this allow for a change in where she's is living without the epic throw down that would have been necessary to get her to move from the rural family home. A good 25 minute drive from anything.

We found a place in town that, honestly, I think we need to start building more of everywhere. I can best describe it as a residency hotel with help. You rent the room like an apartment and then pay additional for the level of care you need. Three meals a day in the common room which is quite nice, there are those strings of Edison bulbs (LED) over the eating area like a nice outdoor cafe. Residents are all older but with various levels of ability. There's van available to run people to appointments. It's a short walk from the an ice cream shop and the local brewery But here's the part I most want to relay here -

...she's happy. Really happy, more than we thought she be, more than she would have imaged. She's sits at the sassy gals table at meals. Before this the highlight of her life was a Quilting Club that met once a week (unfortunately they meet in a basement, 14 steps, not happening) Now she's making new friends and sees them everyday. The quilting gals still stop by from time to time.

Image mixing this model with some younger families too, I'm not kidding. You get meal plan, some nights you cook, on the busy days you drag the kids down to the commons for the meal. I been thinking that I wouldn't mind living like this.

Hopefully this makes my view of the situation clear.

Simon Reynolds's avatar

Many in the UK have addressed the age transportation gap by asking a local cab company for a discount deal on off peak journeys, backed by a minimum monthly subscription. You can get astonishingly cheap travel this way, with a nice driver to help at each end.

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