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Stephen  Sheehy's avatar

Our house is about 1650 square feet of conditioned space. It has an open kitchen/ dining/ living room of about 1000 square feet. We like the open space, but I guess not everyone does. On Christmas Eve, we'll have nine people for dinner. My wife will make most of the dinner, while everyone will crowd around the kitchen island, chatting with the cook and each other until we serve dinner at the dining table, which is in the center of the space. After dinner, we'll clear the table, piling the dishes on the kitchen counter while whoever wants coffee will make it. It's a bit messy, but after our guests leave, I'll clean up in just a few minutes. It's an efficient space.

We both cook, with each of us having certain dishes we like to make. Of the 21 meals in a week, we cook an average of at least 20.

From a use of resources point of view, our open plan has some advantages. We heat the entire space with a single mini split heat pump. Three separate rooms would require either separate heating appliances or ductwork. Three rooms would mean several partition walls requiring dozens of studs, a few hundred square feet of drywall, probably several doors. The living room end is on the south side of the house. It's nice to get sunlight in the entire space, especially this time of year when, because sun is low in the sky, we get sunlight penetrating all the way into the kitchen on the north wall. If we partitioned off the space, the kitchen would never get any sun.

Like a lot of people, I grew up in a house with a separate dining room. Like most dining rooms, it was almost never used.

An awful lot of people just don't cook. Having a separate kitchen isn't going to change that.

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Arthur's avatar

The paragraph describing Matt Power’s bucolic vision of the kitchen and with your counterpoint describing the identical space as something completely different says it all. Kitchens can fit either description, both or one anywhere in between. The kitchen in my childhood home was a basic U-shape opening to a space occupied by a large dining table. It was small enough that one person could work it efficiently but large enough that you could have three or four people in there working together on a meal for a large gathering (an almost daily occurrence at our house where at the peak we were 9 sharing a 1500sqft bungalow with one bathroom and where one or more of us routinely dragged home a stray or two to join us for a meal). It, together with the attached dining space shared the role of gathering place with the living room. It served as the scene for so many of my most important memories of family and friends. We cooked and ate there. We played board and cars games on the table. We argued there, we celebrated, laughed, cried and mourned there. We watched the moon landing there on a miniature portable TV borrowed from a neighbour. It was never just Mom’s space. Certainly she did the bulk of the heavy lifting there early on but we all were pulled in to help as we grew up and became capable. Even when my Mom was the “chief cook and bottle washer”, because it had some space and was joined to the dining area, she was seldom alone there. I still view having that space to share with family and friends during my formative years as one of the great blessings of my life. On the contrary, the cramped galley kitchen of one of the early apartments I shared with my later to be wife was useless except for its very narrowly defined purpose and was only mediocre at serving that purpose. It isolated the cook (having multiple cooks was not an option in there). It was cramped and claustrophobic. Its unpleasantness bullied you into eating out or ordering food. It played no positive role in bringing the people sharing the apartment space together. There is no perfect kitchen but I would argue that one that serves its purpose as a food prep and storage space and is set up in a way to bring people together trumps one that is designed for narrow purpose almost always. If you can’t hear your TV show because of all the banging pots in the kitchen maybe turn off the “idiot box” for a bit and go join the person in the kitchen banging those pots and make a meal and memory together.

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