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Scott McKie's avatar

Hi Lloyd -- you know there is one thing that is missing here - it's called "family" - and up until the people that look upon themselves as "boomers" - ever since dirt was discovered - "families" have been taking care of their elders.

I'm 81 years young - "not a boomer in any way", as is my wife of 42 years, being 90, with her being the real life example of the "energizer bunny".

Neither one of us "fit" anywhere close to what is described here.

Maybe we're just lucky - but I think not: because we have "family" and never bought into the "boomer label".

Our collective family is making sure that we are ok - which we are - even though I'm now severely physically disabled from injuries incurred while in the US Navy.

The thing is -- we don't need what your selling.

CLS's avatar

Great article! I actually think about your topic often and have done some long term planning for aging. I’m 65, near the end of the Boomer generation. I watched my parents in their aging process. My dad died in 2018, a Depression baby, and my mom still alive, a WWII baby. When my mom was 65 and my dad was 73, they moved north into a suburb 15 miles out of our large city with a huge yard and a 4 bedroom house (2678 sq. Ft. No public transportation goes out as far as their neighborhood. My mom lost her ability to see at 75. Once my dad died it fell on me to transport her. Some days I drove 70 miles to get her to and from doctor appointments. My parents had 2 children. My brother died in 2011 and neither of us had kids. There is only me left to help her. When I’m her age there will be no one to help me. Not a sob story, just the facts. So I have considered this as well as the devastating climate change we are facing.

I live in the city with public transportation near a hospital. Our house is 1200 sq. Ft., one story with a small yard. We have a walk in shower with a built in bench. Wheelchair wide paths in the yard and no lawn. I am learning to grow food and preserve it, and we live very near a river. I so dream of having a few acres in a quieter place, but I know I’d only get about 10 years to live there and old age would make it a very difficult life. So I am content living in the city and aging in place as long as possible. My next goal is becoming more connected with my neighbors. Building community with them. Sorry so long… but your article was relevant and timely. Thank you!!!!

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